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I am a heteroflexible woman that is a strange combination of very passionate and really laid back, extremely sophisticated and a complete dork, driven and sometimes lazy. I am a jack of all trades. I can change my own oil and my own tired, battery cables, thermostat, and gaskets, but pay someone to do these because my time and energy are valuable. I've studied makeup application and done it for many people, but I rarely wear makeup myself (more out of circumstance than desire). I'm an enigma wrapped in a fun candy-coated puzzle, but the complete package is totally worth putting it together!
My main profession is in the Alternative Healthcare field. I also am a Lyft Driver and Starbucks Barista. I am working hard and hard working, but I carve out a few days off for the sake of my sanity and would love to meet someone who is cool with scheduling things months in advance if necessary but who is also flexible enough to have a spur of the moment adventure when time allows.
Dating is fun, but I am hoping to find something more serious and long term. I have been married and divorced; while divorce totally sucks, it's better to be alone than with someone that isn't a good partner. That's really what I'm looking for: a Dominant PARTNER who is not afraid to tell me "NO" when necessary and who values me and what I bring to their life. I don't NEED a partner to be happy with my life or to "complete me", but things in life do feel a little sweeter when there is someone to share them with.
A few things I've observed in the Atlanta kink community that I need to address:
1. This area is chock full of kinky POLY people. That's great... If you are poly. I am NOT poly. I DO NOT (regularly) SHARE THE AFFECTIONS, TIME, OR BODY OF MY DOMINANT! I am looking for a long term/lifetime monogamous relationship. Perhaps after our relationship is solid after several years, MAYBE we might invite a plaything into our need for a single night, but I will never share someone else's emotions.
2. As with any large scene, there are always lots of different interpretations of a lifestyle and lots of different experience levels. There are a LOT more newbies my age than there are highly experienced people. So, if you think being kinky, being "dominant", just means you can get away with just tying me up with fuzzy handcuffs and spanking me a little, or that you'll have a one way ticket to a threesome... you're probably not the right guy for me. I'm seeking someone for whom dominance is just who they are, not a role they play, someone who had enough experience to be creative while still maintaining an open mind about learning new things.
Additionally, just because I'm seeking a Dominant doesn't mean all I want to discuss is sex. Please don't ask for sexy pics, and PLEASE actually engage me in conversation as a human being, not as a sex object; until we've actually met and are in an actual relationship, you are NOT entitled to that privilege.
Tattoos and hair color are two form of expression I greatly love. I have a lot of ink. I'd like more. Most of my pieces are full color portraits of animals or plants; all of them have very deep significance to me. Yes, I'm 36 years old. Yes, I may have pink, purple, blue-green, or blood red hair. It's FUN! If you have a problem with bringing a tattooed chick with candy-colored hair home to meet Mom, or are going to expect me to cover up my ink whenever we meet your family or co-workers, we aren't going to work out.
I have a lot of experience in BDSM, which makes it difficult to find people to play with that are in my preferred age range for a relationship. I'm looking for someone that lives IN the Atlanta area/ just outside it. I don't have the time or the money to make a long distance relationship work. So if you live more than 2 hour's drive from Atlanta (calculated by the distance and the speed limit, NOT by the time it ACTUALLY takes to get anywhere with traffic as bad as it is), a relationship is probably going to be more difficult than either of us is willing to do.
Please note that I'm not yet a premium member, so I can't necessarily respond unless you are a member AND you've bought the "standard members can contact" option. That doesn't mean I'm not interested, it may just mean I CAN'T respond. Depending on how many people I find on here that I'm interested in, I might purchase a premium membership, but since I'm looking for someone with their financial life in order, I don't think it's too much to hold out hope for that people who have purchased the premium membership will contact me.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal Dominant falls into the "Daddy Dom" category, with a bit of Sadist intermixed. He is creative and consistent with his rules, helps me become the best version of myself and the best submissive for him that I can be. He respects me as a partner and doesn't need to be a domineering asshole in order to feel like he is "dominant enough". I'm looking for a PARTNER, so while yes, I want someone I can submit to, I also have opinions and the need to be heard and have a give and take in everyday life.
Vanilla traits I look for are a non-smoker, seldom to never in his alcohol consumption, never uses illegal drugs, and understands the importance of taking care of his physical appearance without obsessing over it. I want someone mostly height/weight proportionate; I an a little overweight, but I'm not obese, and I'm not looking for someone who is. YOU MUST HAVE GOOD ORAL HYGIENE AND ALL OF YOUR TEETH (even if they are implants or crowds or whatever) - bad teeth are a deal-breaker! I like tall men, with dark hair and facial hair, tattoos, but the physical specifics other than those outlined above matter less than the chemistry between us.
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